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After almost 21 years in the Air Force, Jeff Andrejcik was looking forward to retiring from military life, embarking on a fruitful career in the civilian world.Â
Andrejcikâs service time included multiple deployments, highlighted by three combat tours in Iraq and the United Arab Emirates. The Air Force veteran served in several roles and had built a solid resume, landing a job with the federal government and moving his family to a base in Florida for a position he had worked years to acquire.Â
Then came the gut punch. Â
President Donald Trumpâs swift and indiscriminate overhaul of the federal workforce earlier this year suddenly meant Andrejcik was out of a job.Â
âMy selection and the position I earned were erased from the books,â Andrejcik told Military.com.Â
Andrejcik, who was working on his masterâs degree when his position was eliminated, didnât know what to do. Spending two decades in the military, he was reared on planning, preparation and execution, but this new world of unemployment was about as foreign as one of his deployments to a far-off country.Â
âThe momentum vanished overnight, and I felt like I had every reason to dwell,â Andrejcik said.Â
But he didnât. While the military teaches soldiers planning, preparation and execution, it also teaches resiliency. The Air Force veteran dusted himself off and decided to reset, regroup and commit to finding the next opportunity.Â
âAdmittedly, Iâm not the biggest fan of the word resilience, but itâs what military service instills, and now there was no time to abandon that,â Andrejcik said. âBecause the truth after serving is this: pity wonât help you pay the bills.âÂ
Persistence Opens DoorsÂ
When Andrejcik was serving at his last duty station, RAF Alconbury in the U.K., he put a lot of thought into life after the military. He knew it likely wouldnât be a cakewalk, but he felt assured, with his level of training and experience, that an ideal opportunity wasnât far off.Â
However, his unexpected job loss thrust him into the dreary realm of job boards, rejections, and rewriting resumes for civilian positions in a way that he said, â20 years of âhurry-up-and-waitâ never taught me.âÂ
In the process, Andrejcik learned a hard truth â in the civilian world, a veteranâs resume filled with experience and education doesnât often land at the top of the pile.Â
âStill, opportunities exist,â he said. âIt boils down to how much effort youâre willing to put into seizing them.âÂ
Months of surfing the various job sites like LinkedIn and Glassdoor, Andrejcikâs tenacity paid off. He spotted a job with TalkingParents, a software-as-a-service (SAAS) specializing in co-parenting communication, founded by veterans Vince Mayfield and Louis Erickson, who left government contracting to branch out on their own.Â
âThe more I researched,â Andrejcik said, âthe more it seemed too good to be true. They created a company with purpose, values, and culture that mirrored what I came to love about the military.âÂ
Andrejcik said the job also checked off a lot of the work-life balance boxes: tuition assistance, flexible time off, and comprehensive health insurance coverage. In addition, TalkingParents hosts monthly team-building events. Â
âI felt compelled,â Andrejcik said. âSo, I applied.âÂ
TalkingParents was interested in him too, and after a couple rounds of interviews, a skills test, and a tour of the office, Andrejcik received the words he had waited months to hear ⊠âYouâre hired!â He serves as the companyâs lead public relations specialist, a role he was familiar with in the Air Force.Â
âAlmost immediately, I felt it: the familiar sense of camaraderie, the shared mission, the extended family you donât expect to find outside of the uniform,â he said.Â
After about five months with TalkingParents, Andrejcik feels heâs found the connection and purpose he was accustomed to in the Air Force. A perfect bridge to a new chapter.Â
Donât Rest on Laurels Â
For Andrejcik, 20-plus years surrounded by military life made him a bit complacent. The thought of getting fired never really crossed his mind and it became easier to take things for granted.Â
If his story hits close to the heart for fellow veterans, he said itâs time to âreprogram your mindset.â He discovered the civilian world sets a much lower bar for apathy.Â
âThey respect your service and sacrifice, but it doesnât exempt you from the expectation of contributing to a team, shaping culture, and answering the call,â he said. âConsistently displaying those traits not only gets you in the door, but it keeps you in the house.âÂ
Whatâs the biggest lesson Andrejcik learned on his employment journey? Â Â
âOpportunities wonât be handed to you,â he said.Â
Tips for Job Hunting
Andrejcik shared a few key tips for job hunters:Â
- Apply what you learned from mentors and the Transition Assistance Program
- Custom-tailor resumes to align with job descriptions
- Include sincere cover letters
- Do research
- Showcase yourself on professional sites like LinkedInÂ
âLean on AI. Itâs an invaluable tool that takes the tedium out of job preparation and research,” Andrejcik said. “In seconds, AI can translate military experience into civilian terms, tailor rĂ©sumĂ©s to different roles, and determine which jobs are actually a good fit.â
The Air Force veteran also said that military members who are in their last 12 months of duty, and those who separated within the last 12 months, can also receive a free year of ChatGPT Plus account.Â
Success after the military can be challenging for most veterans, but Andrejcikâs tale shows itâs not impossible.Â
âEmbrace the process and be ready to put a full-time effort into landing a full-time job,â he said. âCombine that with the same grit, adaptability, and resilience that carried you through the military, and it will carry you through civilian life.âÂ
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18 Comments
I’m interested in learning more about the company culture and values at TalkingParents, and how they align with Andrejcik’s own values and experiences as a veteran.
The fact that Andrejcik was working on his master’s degree when he lost his job highlights the importance of ongoing education and training for veterans, and the need for more resources and support in this area.
Andrejcik’s statement that ‘pity won’t help you pay the bills’ resonates deeply, and serves as a reminder that resilience and determination are essential for navigating life’s challenges.
Andrejcik’s experience of having to rewrite his resume for civilian positions and navigate job boards is a common challenge faced by many veterans, and highlights the need for more support and resources in this area.
The fact that Andrejcik was able to find a job with a company that specializes in co-parenting communication, and that was founded by veterans, suggests that there may be more opportunities for veterans in the tech and software industries.
I’m skeptical about the ease with which Andrejcik was able to find a new job with TalkingParents, and wonder if his experience is representative of the larger veteran community.
The statistic that Andrejcik spent 21 years in the Air Force, including three combat tours in Iraq and the United Arab Emirates, is a testament to his dedication and service.
I’m curious to know more about the role that Andrejcik played in the Air Force, and how his experiences and skills translated to his new role at TalkingParents.
I’m concerned about the impact of policy changes on the livelihoods of veterans, and wonder if there are any efforts underway to provide more support and resources for those affected.
The quote ’20 years of hurry-up-and-wait never taught me’ how to navigate the civilian job market is particularly striking, and underscores the difficulties that veterans may face in transitioning to civilian life.
The fact that TalkingParents was founded by veterans Vince Mayfield and Louis Erickson, who left government contracting to branch out on their own, suggests that there may be more opportunities for veterans in the private sector than initially thought.
The fact that Andrejcik’s family had to move to a base in Florida for his job, only for him to lose it, highlights the sacrifices that military families make and the need for more support and resources.
I’m interested in learning more about the resources and support that are available to veterans who are transitioning to civilian life, and how these resources can be improved or expanded.
Andrejcik’s experience of having to ‘reset, regroup and commit to finding the next opportunity’ is a powerful reminder of the importance of resilience and determination in the face of adversity.
Jeff Andrejcik’s experience of being suddenly let go from his federal job after 21 years in the Air Force is a stark reminder of the unpredictability of the job market, even for those with extensive service and experience.
I’m curious to know more about the ‘gut punch’ Andrejcik felt when he lost his job, and how he managed to overcome the initial shock and find a new sense of purpose.
Andrejcik’s story serves as a reminder that even in the face of unexpected challenges and setbacks, it’s possible to find new opportunities and pursue a fulfilling career.
The fact that Andrejcik’s selection and position were ‘erased from the books’ due to President Donald Trump’s overhaul of the federal workforce highlights the impact of policy changes on individual lives.